Tocqueville attacked the institution of arranged marriages for it encouraged loose sexual morals thereby undermining personal freedom. He was critical of the Fench Revolution which might have democratised the country’s political life but failed to create a culture of freedom.
He was impressed with the high level of sexual morality in America which was seen as a private affair buttressed by religion particularly Christianity rather than political traditions. The sexual code as outlined by the Christian ethics included virginity outside of marriage, continence and fidelity within marriage, and strict avoidance of all forms of license.
Besides religion other factors like racial makeup, climate, social condition and role of statesmanship also played a significant role. Marriages in America were not arranged and that enabled women to enjoy personal happiness and sexual relationship based on mutual respect and love. Marital freedom guaranteed a high level of chastity.
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For Tocqueville Americans educated their women by giving them freedom rather than exerting parental authority. Americans valued chastity because it promoted healthy commercial habits, kept families productive and helped in maintaining political stability, the key to prosperity proving that chastity was not due to religion alone but also had its secular origins.
This was not the case with European women. Nevertheless, they enjoyed unprecedented equality with their spouses for marriage was a contract between two mature, morally responsible and free adults. Tocqueville observed that American women despite their lack of formal political power were able to contribute to America’s freedom and prosperity because of the dignity and freedom in their personal lives.